Toward the end of my time in high school, I wrote an essay for my English literature class that I thought was probably the best piece of work that I had ever done. It was, therefore, with some excitement that I handed the work to my English teacher, fully expecting an enthusiastic response. I was to be disappointed; her only comment was, “It’s a bit long-winded, isn’t it?’ I should have learned my lesson at that point, I guess, but I recall some years later handing in the draft of the first two chapters of what would become my doctoral thesis, only to get back first among the comments: ‘Pompous and verbose, remember you only have 60,000 words for the whole thing!’
I know that today, some may have the same view regarding my preaching! Many of us use far more words than necessary to get our point across, and that can be especially true when it comes to prayer, not because of any innate wordiness but because we somehow feel we need to spell out everything if God is to answer us. We have probably all been in services where the prayers seem longer than the sermon or thought prayer meetings go on for far too long.
Contrast such experiences with the simple model of the prayer given by Jesus to his disciples, and his equally direct advice on the subject in chapter 6 of Matthew’s gospel. Jesus tells us that God knows what we need, even before we ask, and that prayer is for our benefit rather than God’s. It’s the thought rather than the words that matter most to God. Of course, words have their place, but we should never get too caught up in them, nor worry that God won't hear us if our words aren’t perfect. In fact, it's worth considering whether we sometimes miss God's response because we’re too busy talking to listen!
Do you struggle to find the right words in prayer? It's okay. How much do words aid us, and how much do they
hinder us? The Good News Bible offers these words from the wisdom literature: ‘Be careful about going
to the Temple. It is better to go there to learn than to offer sacrifices like foolish people who don't know
right from wrong. 2 Think before you speak, and don't make any rash promises to God. He is in heaven,
and you are on earth, so don't say any more than you have to.’ (Ecclesiastes 5:1-2)
We should take our lead from the disciples of long ago and ask God to teach us how to pray. Perhaps
these few words of prayer from my prayer guru, Nick Fawcett, might help this week. ‘Loving God,
forgive me the way I sometimes misunderstand and abuse prayer. Teach me not only to speak but also to
listen, not just to seek but to find, not simply to bring my requests but also to respond to your call.
Remind me that there is a time for words and to keep silent, and help me make room for both.’ Amen
Shalom to you, my friend.
Pastor Andrew